How Do Lesbians Have Sex?

To the question, How do lesbians have sex? I always thought the proper response was, quite well, thank you. I thought the question was a put on. One of those designed to embarrass the respondent or to give a thrill. Then I discovered some […]

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Misconceptions, Lies & Stereotypes Of Lesbians

We have all heard stories about how lesbians really are. The sentence beings — You can’t be a lesbian, you are too … [fill in the blank]. Let’s explore some of those stereotypes and assumptions, shall we? Lesbians hate men.I am sure there are lesbians out […]

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Outing Tinky-Winky?

Gay tele-tubbies. Who would have thunk? Apparently our good friend, Jerry Falwell and his newsletter editors knew. Good thing he warned the rest of us. Imagine allowing some British production group to indoctrinate our children with subversive clues like … purple … […]

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Should You Come Out?

Outing — What do you think of the practice? Is it the right thing to do in all cases? Is it right to do at any time? Is it fair to out someone? Would you out someone under any circumstances? What a […]

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Individual Rights In Relationships

Many times we lose sight of what is happening between our partner and ourselves. Slowly the balance can shift and we have gone from being loved to being abused. One day you find yourself wondering if your expectations are too high, too […]

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Lesbians Married Straight

For centuries, gay men and women have been marrying straight folks, and for every person there is a different reason. Though the reasons vary, the reality is that everyone ends up hurt. So how does it happen? Some seem to not realize […]

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Lesbian Politics – Two Steps Forward..?

Two steps forward with one step back — a familiar refrain that continues to ring true for the LGBT community in our country. I do not know how many of you keep up on the news, but it seems to me [and […]

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Splitting Hairs Or Defending Your Sexuality?

I don’t agree with homosexuality. We have all read or heard that statement at least once. Can you recall your initial reaction? My first thought was to wonder just how someone could argue about a sexual orientation. Someone may not want to respect […]

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Straight Lesbians or Denying Bisexuality?

Politically active lesbians marrying men. Lesbians insisting that though married to men, they continue to self identify as lesbians. Should you question them, they become offended. Are you as confused as I? I watched the news/entertainment show 20/20 one night when they did a […]

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Lesbian Health Issues

Also known as Stein-Leventhal Syndrome, it is the leading cause of infertility in women, affects between 6-10% of all women and most of them do not even know they have it. The good news is that the condition is treatable. The bad […]