How to Be a Good Girlfriend

A common misperception about lesbian relationships is that they don’t last. After you meet a few couples who have been together for 20 or 30 years or more, though, you’ll start to see that they most certainly can and do stand the test of time.

If you want your relationship to endure, being a good partner is important. When you’re half of a couple, you have to balance your needs with those of your partner, your relationship, and your families. That’s easier said than done when emotions, ego, and desires get in the way. Here are a few ideas for things you can do to make yourself the best girlfriend you can be. Hint: They have everything to do with mutual respect.

Be a Good Listener

Most people think they’re good listeners, but being a truly active listener takes practice. Make eye contact, turn off the TV, don’t interrupt, don’t jump to conclusions, don’t get defensive, don’t glance at your phone. Let her know you’re ​hearing what she has to say. Wait until she’s finished before you respond or address what she’s saying.​​​

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