Should You Come Out?

Outing — What do you think of the practice? Is it the right thing to do in all cases? Is it right to do at any time? Is it fair to out someone? Would you out someone under any circumstances? What a […]

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Lesbians Married Straight

For centuries, gay men and women have been marrying straight folks, and for every person there is a different reason. Though the reasons vary, the reality is that everyone ends up hurt. So how does it happen? Some seem to not realize […]

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Finding My Lesbian Sexuality

Have you ever reminisced about the time when you first realized you were a lesbian? Some women tell me they always knew their sexual desires were different from other women. Once they learned the words, they understood the meaning behind being different. […]

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Coming Out Daily

To be, or not to be — out that is. It is a question we all have to ask ourselves numerous times every day. Every situation is different and many issues considered before we make the decision. Different risks, the energy to cope with […]

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The Lesbian Late Bloomer

Many people ask me how they can tell if a woman is a lesbian. And most often the questions come from women who are just beginning to question their own sexual orientation. Very often they are frightened and confused. In the case […]

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Step Into Your New Sexuality — Don’t Run

Once you have come out to yourself as a lesbian, the next step is to contemplate the big decision. Do I come out to others? In my opinion, that question cannot be answered with a simple yes or no. Did you recently realize you are a lesbian? […]

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What Makes Her A Lesbian?

Today, while looking for a few minutes of relaxation, I wandered into a chat room. A woman came into the room and asked if someone would be interested in talking with her seriously. I sensed she was feeling troubled, so I agreed […]

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The Sexual Epiphany

Have you ever known a woman who never seemed interested in dating? They are sometimes called a late starter. When these women were growing into their teens, they did not have any interest in boys or girls, nor in dating. Generally these girls […]

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Exploring Lesbian Sexuality

I often receive private email from women who are frightened by their first stirrings of attraction for another woman. Sometimes I read the same lines from women who post in the public forums. — How do I know if I’m a lesbian? — And […]

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A Different Kind Of Sexual Attraction

Have you ever known a women who always knew they are attracted to women instead of men? So aware of her own feelings, she recognized her attraction from the start. She may not have known the name for how she felt, but […]

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